Are you sure you found the MPI relay? I'm not sure why you're comparing it to a "fuse" since it's a metal box with like 8 contacts and corresponding plug.
There's also some relay near the factory battery location. I'm not sure what it's for, but it had been moved a bit on one of my cars. I once had that get wet after a heavy rain and the car would not start.
Also, Try this.. turn the key all the way on. Mark where the CAS is set. Remove it. Spin it with your finger, and listen for injectors firing, and fuel running. Also, while doing this, unplug the plugwires from the coilpack, and watch for spark there. This will tell you of the CAS is working. Also, if you have a known good spare CAS, just plug it in instead, and spin it. If you're not hearing injectors, fuel, or both.. it might be the CAS, or it might be the CAS is not getting proper power/signal, at which time you'd want to get out the volt meter and verify that. If you hear fuel, but no injectors firing, check your connection at the resistor pack.
Double check all connections at the ECU as well. Triple check ALL fuses, both under the hood, and under the dash.
One more thing.. is the CEL coming on when you have the key all the way on?