Howdy! Welcome to the club!
I'm about 20 mins out of Philadelphia, but I have a TON of random DSM/vr4 parts, so if you are in need of anything let me know! If you have any questions, feel free to PM me and grab my phone number. I am far from a guru, but I've kinda gone over a gvr4 top to bottom 3 times, and am constantly tinkering with other random cars, so I might not have all the answers, but I got a bunch.
I have 995/1000 and 1662/2000. Unfortunately, 995 was the DD until the alternator AND shift fork (can't make this up) broke the same day. She has been parked since October. JNZ tuning and ExtremePSI are great places for parts. Don't forget rock auto! Certain parts people like from there (like my clutch slave/master and front control arms).
I'm currently swapping a 1g dsm from manual to auto, and with a fresh motor attempting to dip into the 9's. As a stick car it went low 10s, and now we reduced weight, added more power, and converted it to a built auto with stalled convertor. If you are ever in the area, stop by!