Not like a child, we just expect you to communicate like an adult. Don't worry, all noobies go through an adjustment period when they join this forum, everyone else has.
We expect proper grammar, remember the first step to a misunderstanding is communication. If the people reading your post have a hard time deciphering your sentences they will exert less effort in trying to help you.
Think of it this way. When you use poor sentence structure and spelling you get this:
My car has had this problm that jsut start today. It clicks them winds oevr reel slow.
Put some effort into your post and people will be more apt to help you. If you suck at spelling, find a free IE spell checker, google it... If you read your post after you post it and see lot of mistakes, take the time to edit your post.
No one is hazing you, these things are what sets us apart from the DSM forums. Great guys here with a wealth of information that is here for the asking. BTW, your other post on this same topic has a place for you to start diagnosing.