Headlight Relay Location

[VR6Eater]

Need some help here. Pulled the car out and headlights don't work anymore. I thought the relay under the hood was the main headlight relay, but that's the one that flashes the headlights when the alarm goes off. Headlights work when alarm goes off. So I'm thinking combo switch or relay. Someone please tell me where the relay is. I've used the search function and I still hate it.

 

[VR6Eater]

Not on the front crossmember where they should be. Now to find where Terry hid them. Thanks Andrew.