I have a horrid starter grind when starting my car just replaced the flywheel new clutch the starter is just bearly catching the flywheel it is the correct flywheel has 106 teeth have the correct starter its brand new and ive verified its the correct one did research and the tranny is stock and has not been replaced i really dont want to pull the tranny to check the starter plate to see if it is correct ive read starters are different and that the auto one extends out a little further is this correct? any suggestions?